As I mentioned earlier I had to leave the boy behind who suddenly attached himself to me like a barnacle to a boat. As any good sea woman I had to clean him off; I had to rip off his emotional band-aid. I didn't want to destroy his life long dreams (I know I'm being dramatic) so I initially went with "Thanks for asking me how my day is twice a day, but I'm not texting back" approach...it didn't work. I gave him three days where he texted me without any reply so eventually I sent him a "let's be friends message." As I expected he said something like "oh that's good"--Then why are you so concerned with my well being?? Then next time I saw him he still had that twinkle in his eye as he kissed my cheek...oh dear.
But now!....He is in a relationship?!? Its great for him, he obviously found a girl that is all for is clingy, overly sincere personality. Glad that girl is not me, but this all went down a week ago. Leading to two conclusions: Him and her just moved that quickly, or he was hanging out and clinging on both of us at the same time! That is a lot of checking in on his part. Either way...I dodged that bullet.
To make matters worse this a recurring theme in my life. Over the summer a similar situation happened except he became engaged! A bit more extreme, and he even though he told me it was legit I later found out it was a joke...? Regardless intense background checks will now be done on any guy who even asks for my number.
Gurrlll. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. If anything, you should be proud. Cuz these boys are desperate and want your goodies and when they can't get it, they move on way too quickly because they can't handle the heartbreak. Miss Heartbreaker here ;P
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